I've noticed that my husband is always afraid to look us in the eye when he's talking to me and our son, sometimes even avoiding eye contact altogether. What is the reason for this? Could it be a psychological condition? He's a vice president level in the company, so it's reasonable that he shouldn't be like this in front of outsiders.
Hello dear owner! It's a pleasure to communicate with you here, the
I'm a whale social worker fairy fairy.
After reading your message carefully, I'd like to share my thoughts from a couple of perspectives that I hope will help clear up your confusion.
➡️ There is an analysis in psychology:
❣️ People's behavioral patterns are often shaped by past experiences.
If something gives us a good experience, we'll want to do it again and again; conversely, if the experience is bad, we may subconsciously avoid it.
As an example, it's like if you throw up while riding a roller coaster, the uncomfortable feeling will make most people never want to try it a second time - unless someone just loves the thrill and finds it enjoyable.
Going back to your husband's situation, think about this: every time he has a conversation with you guys, does he feel relaxed and happy, or does he have any other emotions? Have you tried talking to him about this aspect of his experience?
There may be some clues to be found from this perspective.
➡️ Also, the second principle:
❣️ A person is willing to come close to you, often because he is more accepting of himself in your presence.
This law is practical in relationships. If your husband feels the warmth of being understood and recognized when he is at home with you, the
As a male, he will naturally be more willing to open up. Conversely, if he feels repressed or unseen, he may shrink back into his comfort zone and shy away from giving-
Whether it's time, energy, or emotion.
❤ I hope these tips inspire you.
(whale social worker fairy fairy)