I've never been very willing to open up to people, and used to lie about my age, and now that I have a husband and kids, I never mention myself to many people or post to my friends, and my husband is a little upset about it.
Because I'm in a second marriage, I'm always worried that people will gossip.
Hi, buddy, I'm strawberry.
▲I've always been used to hiding myself, I used to even lie about my age, and now that I have a family, I still don't dare to say much in public, and my circle of friends is quiet, and my husband doesn't feel very comfortable. After all, I am a second marriage, afraid of being pointed out.
★ I wanted to give you a hug when I saw what you shared. Verbal damage does hurt, did you go through a similar blow and became less expressive? There's no shame in getting married for the second time, and you didn't tell anyone, probably because you were afraid of being talked about, but why do you always feel that people must say bad things if they know?
★Your husband is a little bit mindful, mainly because you don't admit to being married in front of outsiders, and he may feel hurt because he doesn't understand what you're afraid of, or the reason why you're hiding it. After you went through a failed marriage, you can still choose your current husband, surely he has something that attracts you. When two people form a family, they need to build trust and a sense of security. Remember, your husband is the most reliable person you can rely on, and you can try to talk to him about what's in your heart. Starting from the closest people, slowly learn to express yourself, when you no longer hide, you will find that in fact, in front of others to show the real is not so difficult, people will not hurt you for no reason.
★Try to open your heart and learn to be true to yourself, come on!